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Welcome to Field & Flowers. Est 2026. Here you will find my writing on identity, healing, and becoming with the support of plant wisdom. Informed by lived experience, being a flower oracle, breaking the cycle, chronic illness, long-term sobriety, heartbreak after 40, and spiritual practice.



February 15, 2006 Journal Entry
"I've been feeling really pissy for the past few days. I can't tell you how happy I am that valentine's day has passed. Such a worthless...

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Feb 6, 2020


Letter to My Past Self
Dear Michele, I love you and behind the smiles and social life I can see you’re struggling. To know real love. To know yourself and to...

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Feb 3, 2020


Sometimes Being Unavailable Is A Very Good Thing
When you become unavailable to the things on this list you have set boundaries. Boundaries in dating and relationships are so important....

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Jan 31, 2020


What I Strive For In Relationships
Here is what I strive for in my relationship. Realistic: I strive to see my partner realistically. Meaning I evaluate my own projections,...

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Jan 28, 2020


Forgive Yourself
For how you felt when they didn’t stay over. For what you thought when they told you they met someone else. For silencing yourself and...

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Jan 26, 2020


The Thing About Ambitious Women
I attract ambitious women to my work. I define an ambitious woman as a woman who’s done the work or actively working to build the life...

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Jan 22, 2020


Defining Moments
When I was a teenager I liked a boy named Stephen*. I wanted him to like me too but I kept my crush hidden away for many years. All my...

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Jan 5, 2020


4 Things You Should Never Feel Guilty For
Finding someone to be in a long-term relationship with can take some time, and along the way, we can certainly experience many twists and...

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Jan 2, 2020


What I Think You Deserve This Year
Hello beautiful woman. Happy New Year. How are you feeling on the first day of the year? This is a day when there is a lot of energy...

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Jan 1, 2020


I Never Said I Was a Healer
I was recently called a “fake healer” by someone who was feeling angry. I think this person was so mad because they took an inaction of...

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Dec 23, 2019


Clearing
I have 6 levels of transformation in my 6-week program Date With Depth. Clearing is level 2 and it’s about identifying and taking steps...

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Nov 25, 2019


How to Make It Easy For People to Love Us (pt. 2)
(2) Own Your Experience & Your Part EXAMPLE: I used to excessively blame the person I was dating when things weren’t going the way I...

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Nov 21, 2019


The Stories We Tell Ourselves
I used to tell myself a little story that I wasn’t looking for anything serious. That keeping things casual, light and non-committal...

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Nov 16, 2019


I See You
You are beautiful, powerful and infinite. And... You're perpetually single and want a relationship. You’ve been out of a relationship...

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Nov 15, 2019


What We Need to Unlearn
We are so lucky to live in a time when so many people are awakening and healing themselves and encouraging others to do the same. We are...

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Nov 14, 2019


The "Cuffing" Season
“You seeing anyone special?” “What happened to that nice guy you were dating?” “When are you going to settle down?” “When are you...

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Nov 13, 2019


Who You Are Without a Relationship
When I got clear that I wanted to work directly with women seeking transformation and support to find love and relationships it felt like...

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Nov 11, 2019


Losing Yourself To Find Love
Date Like a Man. Play by the Rules. Act Like a Lady and Think Like a Man. Why Men Marry Bitches. Truth time: I read all these books...

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Nov 10, 2019


Self-Sabotage
You know the feeling of wanting something so badly you self-sabotage and get in your own way? I can’t tell you how many first dates I...

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Nov 8, 2019


Visioning
I had an online journal in my 20s and early 30s. I made an entry on September 8, 2012. I was 30 years old. I was completing an exercise...

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Nov 7, 2019
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