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Welcome to Evolution Artistry. Here you will find personal writing on identity, healing, and becoming. Informed by lived experience with breaking the cycle, chronic illness, long-term sobriety, heartbreak after 40, and spiritual practice. Notes from a life devoted to the art of evolution.
2022, you kinda sucked
Towards the end of 2021, I started visioning out 2022... I had such wonderful plans. I had such lofty goals. The Truth? 2022 was a bust for me (at least when it came to my plans). After Christmas 2021 was basically canceled for me due to Covid, I proceeded (though I didn’t realize it at the time) to go way into hiding as I faced emotional struggle, after emotional struggle… after emotional struggle. And I struggled in just about all areas of my life: my relationship, m
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Dec 23, 2022
8 Days Alone, How I'm dealing
Today I wanted to give you a window into what I'm working on in my emotional growth and maturity. Today I'm present to being in a reality I've been anticipating for many months. A while back my partner told me he wanted to take a backpacking trip in June to Yosemite so the reality I was contemplating for months was being apart for 8 days. If you've been around for a bit you already know I have an abandonment wound and struggle with separation anxiety when my partner and I are
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Jun 22, 2022
My mom forgot my birthday this year...
Before I get into this one let me first say that if you’re expecting a newsletter with me unpacking all the upset and anger someone (me) would feel when their mother doesn’t acknowledge them on their birthday this is not that writing piece. This is going to give some context about what happened but focus on the power I unearthed and growth I experienced when I didn’t hear from my mother on my birthday. If you missed it on Instagram, I turned 40 last Wednesday. It was a portal
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Apr 25, 2022


When Your Relationship Takes a Hit
Recently my partner told me something that took me out of control. He told me he didn't feel comfortable traveling with me to visit...
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Dec 16, 2020


How to Use Relationship Routines
A morning routine or morning ritual is series of actions you take each morning. . A solo routine allows you to spend time connecting with...
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Oct 21, 2020


The Sweet Spot
If you've tried to turn a hookup into relationship... If you've tried to create more passion in the bedroom with your longterm partner...
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Jul 4, 2020


To Fall In Love With Yourself Is the First Step to Real Happiness
When you are feeling down on yourself some people will tell you to love yourself more. But what does it actually mean to fall in love...
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May 7, 2020


You’re not stuck at home, you’re safe at home
Hi! How's everyone doing out there? I've been taking it real slow the last few weeks and it's been wonderful. I've been careful with my...
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Mar 28, 2020


Being Single Doesn't Mean You're Unwanted or Undesireable
I've been hearing around in my coaching practice that the isolation for single women is bringing up old wounds. Fear of being alone. Fear...
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Mar 20, 2020


"The hygiene we need during this time goes far beyond washing our hands regularly..."
Hi everyone! I haven’t been much on Insta in the last week. We have a lot happening in the world right now and it’s felt challenging to...
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Mar 17, 2020


Sometimes Being Unavailable Is A Very Good Thing
When you become unavailable to the things on this list you have set boundaries. Boundaries in dating and relationships are so important....
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Jan 31, 2020


Sometimes Slowing Down Is A Power Move
How often do you slow yourself down so you can speed yourself up? This concept doesn’t actually make sense literally but as a tool of...
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Jan 27, 2020


Forgive Yourself
For how you felt when they didn’t stay over. For what you thought when they told you they met someone else. For silencing yourself and...
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Jan 26, 2020


8 Types of Self-Care
Here is a simple list of ways to care for yourself: 1. Physical: sleep, stretching, walking, exercise, healthy food, rest 2. Emotional:...
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Jan 8, 2020


Happy Holidays!
There’s a lot of good energy in my life right now. A lot to look forward to. This year I’ve been working really hard to grow and heal...
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Dec 25, 2019


If You Feel Off...
If you feel off go back to the basics. Nourish yourself with basic self care and tap into the basics of what makes you, you. I travelled...
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Dec 24, 2019
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