men who need healing...even if it's not meant to be.
I don’t remember where I found this but it gave me pause and some discomfort when I read it. I think I’m uncomfortable because I don’t like the word “always” used with anything relating to the human experience. It’s way too limiting. Secondly I don’t know what “spiritual” means in this context. This leaves a lot up for interpretation. The meaning of that word is evolving over time for me but right now spiritual to me means someone who has a relationship with something or someone bigger then her and there is growing trust in that thing for meaning and guidance. According to my definition, I think spiritual people are people who were or are in need of healing. Like attracts like. So people in need of healing attract people in need of healing. Spiritual women attract romantic relationship with people who also need healing. I am a spiritual woman. My partner and I are both in need of healing. I also know him and I are meant to be right now. Our individual healing and growth seem to fit perfectly like puzzle pieces. He shows up and activates me. I show up and activate him. We work through it and learn more about ourselves. It’s hard AF. I wouldn’t want it any other way.