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Accessing that "Real Love"

I believe in the healing power of transformational coaching.


I believe in it so much that I do it for a living and I pay people for it.


I work with a phenomenal relationship coach.


She is helping my partner and I access the real love between us.


After 5 years together I’ve never forgotten that I love my partner, but I admit I forget that I like him sometimes.


When I get caught up in my story and fears that feel too uncomfortable I can want to change the situation and change him.


I know there are always three options for me in life when I’m presented with an uncomfortable circumstance. I can leave it. I can try to change it. I can accept it.


Leaving isn’t an option for me as I am deeply committed and on purpose in my relationship even when it’s extremely difficult.


Changing him isn’t real love.


So deeper understanding and practice of acceptance is where I am growing.


I’m learning in coaching that to love him is to accept him.


I’m learning tools to listen deeply and be curious.


I’m feeling a newer, richer and more uncomfortable flavor of love that I’m trusting in.


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